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Posted on December 1, 2010 by Nia Davenport

Dream with me, for a moment, about what your marriage would be like if money was not a dividing issue.  I don’t mean if you became independently wealthy.  I mean with your circumstances exactly the way they are today, what would your marriage be like if money discussions were a source of peace and unity instead of division and strife?

This doesn’t have to be a dream.

You can experience freedom from financial friction, and this blog will tell you how. With posts dealing with everything from the cause of friction to specific financial challenges, you can gain the insight and inspiration you need to make this dream come true.  Be encouraged, and keep reading!

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Nia’s Story

Posted on December 1, 2010 by Nia Davenport

If any couple should have been in perfect harmony over money, it was my husband and me.  My husband is a natural-born money manager.  I am a Certified Public Accountant (CPA), a Financial Planner, and I have a long history of being an “expert” on money.  So our ability to understand and apply sound financial principles was well above average.

In addition to our financial strengths, we also had a godly marriage.  Even from the early days of our engagement, we truly desired to honor God both as individuals, and as a couple.  Yes, we were the perfect picture of a marriage that should have been immune to conflicts over money.

Yet, every time we sat down to discuss money, all of my education– along with all of my religion– went out the window.  In spite of our abilities and our godly marriage, money talks were filled with tension, stress, and arguments. Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #7 part 2: Dangerous Duplicity

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Nia Davenport

Are you living a “double life” with your money?

Fourteen years ago, my answer was, “yes”. The high standards I espoused in my dealings with money didn’t always carry over into every setting or every relationship, especially my marriage.

Then God lovingly revealed how destructive this was.  Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #7 part 1: The Highest Standard

Posted on April 29, 2012 by Nia Davenport

Does your checkbook reflect God’s heart?

If you’re not sure, then this post is for you.  Over the next few weeks, it is my aim to encourage you to become a person who doesn’t just do what God wants, but truly wants what God wants in all of your financial dealings.

Financial Ethic #7 states:  “We will live by the highest standards of financial integrity in our families, our churches, our chosen work or professions.” [1]

First, you have to understand what the highest standard is.  Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #6: Do Your Investments Reflect Your Heart?

Posted on March 22, 2012 by Nia Davenport

As we seek to grow our wealth by making long-term investments, we have to start asking ourselves this question:  What would Jesus Do?

Financial Ethic #6 states:  “We will look for investments that produce redemptive results, not destructive ones.  We will use our investment money for God’s glory.” [1]

My husband and I have always been very cautious about where we donate large sums of money.  We carefully and prayerfully investigate the vision and the operations of the organizations and missions that we sow into.

But until recently, I must admit that it didn’t occur to us to be equally cautious about where we sowed our investment dollars.  Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #5 part 4: What Does Your Spouse Think of That Risky Investment?

Posted on February 21, 2012 by Nia Davenport

If you’re a natural risk-taker, I understand how you feel more than I want to admit.  I know that in pursuing any risky endeavor, the most enticing thing can be the possibility of winning big, of beating the odds.  But the excitement and adrenaline this creates can blind you to the truth that ALL of your financial decisions affect your spouse.

Financial Ethic #5 states:  “We will avoid risky investments and get-rich-quick schemes.” [1]   

In the fourth and final post on this financial ethic, it’s time to be brutally honest about the fact that you’re risking more than money.  You’re risking creating a major rift with your spouse. And that rift can become a serious roadblock in your journey to freedom from financial friction. Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #5 part 3: Stop! It’s a Trap!

Posted on February 3, 2012 by Nia Davenport

Have you ever been offered an investment opportunity that seemed too good to be true?  If you haven’t yet, you probably will.  From a friend with a new invention, to a multi-level-marketing company offering a product that nobody can live without, anyone can be tempted with the idea of earning a huge return on an investment in a short period of time.

But Financial Ethic #5 states:  “We will avoid risky investments and get-rich-quick schemes.” [1]   

In the last two posts, we talked about how to overcome the mindsets that make us vulnerable to believing that we should pursue quick cash.  Now we will continue to examine this financial ethic, seeing what the Bible warns will happen if we choose to give into these mindsets by pursuing risky investments and get-rich-quick schemes.  Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #5 Part 2: Is Extra Money the Answer to Your Financial Mistakes?

Posted on January 15, 2012 by Nia Davenport

Does the idea of trying to generate a large amount of money in a short amount of time so that you can quickly erase all of your past financial mistakes sound appealing?

Then this post is for you.

Financial Ethic #5 states:  “We will avoid risky investments and get-rich-quick schemes.” [1]   

As we continue to examine this financial ethic, let’s talk about how to deal with the temptation to try to fix our financial problems on our own.

Let me start off by asking you a question:  do you believe that God wants to help you when you’ve made financial mistakes?  I’m not asking if you think He can help you.  I’m asking if you think He’s so upset with what you’ve done wrong, that He’s going to leave you on your own to fix it?  Because unless and until your answers to these questions line up with Biblical truth, you are at risk for going to extreme means to clean up your own messes.  Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #5 Part 1: Do You Want to Be Rich?

Posted on December 31, 2011 by Nia Davenport

Does the idea of having so much extra money that you never have to worry about anything sound appealing?

Then this post is for you.

Over the next few weeks, we will learn to understand and commit to following what the Bible says about pursuing wealth, particularly through risky means.   

Financial Ethic #5 states:  “We will avoid risky investments and get-rich-quick schemes.” [1]   

In this post, we won’t focus on the risky investments themselves, but on the mindset that draws us to them in the first place. Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #4 (Part 5): What to Save For

Posted on November 30, 2011 by Nia Davenport

Now that we’ve addressed the subjects of why you should save, how to save, and getting your spouse on board with saving, let’s finish up this 4th Financial Ethic by addressing what to save for. 

Financial Ethic #4 states:  “We will save a portion of our incomes for future difficulties.” [1]   

By now, I hope you are convinced that saving is not only possible, it is wise. Remember:  “In the house of the wise are stores of choice food and oil, but a foolish man devours all he has. (Proverbs 21:20)”

What types of things should you save for? Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #4 (Part 4): But My Spouse Won’t Save!

Posted on September 28, 2011 by Nia Davenport

Now that we’ve spent some time laying the foundation for why and how to save, let’s talk about one of the biggest obstacles to reaching savings goals that married couples may encounter:

The resistant spouse.

Financial Ethic #4 states:  “We will save a portion of our incomes for future difficulties.” [1]   

But you may be wondering, “how can ‘we’ save if my spouse won’t cooperate”?  Continue reading →

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Financial Ethic #4 (part 3): The Nuts and Bolts of Saving

Posted on August 15, 2011 by Nia Davenport

A piggy bank.

A cookie Jar.

A children’s account at the Savings and Loan.

These were some of the tools that my parents used when I was a child in attempts to get me into the habit of saving money.  And believe it or not, in spite of all of my subconscious efforts to sabotage them, these methods actually worked.  However, they would have been much more effective if I had been a little more motivated, cooperative, and convinced that saving was wise.  

Now that I am sold on the importance of saving, and hopefully you are too, I want to share with you Biblical wisdom on how to do it.    

Financial Ethic #4 states:  “We will save a portion of our incomes for future difficulties.” [1]   

What instructions does the Bible give us on how to save?   

Continue reading →

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